How to Get a Responsive Dog!
It's annoying to nag. And to be nagged at. In the end, it's just noise to the young man, who's tired and closed his ears. He doesn't seem to hear you anymore and you have to nag him more; you've fallen into a vicious circle. It's time to turn things around. Here's what you do:
Why dogs become numb
Building a strong bond with your dog is crucial for effective communication and training. Dogs thrive when they feel connected to their human companions, and it's this connection that can transform your interactions. By nurturing a relationship based on trust, respect, and clear communication, you can create an environment where your dog willingly listens and responds to you. Let's delve into some key strategies to achieve this synergy.
Change your dog's equipment for new conditions
Our furry companions aren't born desensitized to the leash or our cues; they can acquire such desensitization over time. They persistently pull and tug, even with the most innovative anti-pulling gear. The constant nagging to elicit a response, accompanied by increasingly amplified cues, perpetuates a frustrating cycle that breeds stubbornness rather than compliance. But fear not, for there is a way to reverse the course if you find yourself mired in the swamp of nagging. While you can refer to the article Leash training. The key lies in introducing a fresh element that your dog isn't accustomed to pulling on. Consider a new harness or a broad collar, perhaps. By doing so, you establish a novel connection point that evades desensitization. The very spot your dog has worn out requires respite. Experiment with two contact points: fasten the leash at the front of the harness and also at the back. Then, relinquish the tug-of-war and instead lovingly stroke the leash. Embrace your dog and caress, establishing communication through gentle strokes along the strap instead of pulling and tugging. Engage in circular movements and moments of stillness while walking. Celebrate and reward even the slightest inclination to maintain a loose leash.
Communicate without nagging
Put an end to the tiresome cycle of constant pestering and raising your voice. That behavior may have desensitized your dog. It might have even reinforced the notion that responding on the fifth attempt of for example a recall cue is rewarding. It's time to break free from this pattern. Instead, draw closer to your canine companion, speak in hushed tones, and evoke an air of intrigue as if sharing a secret. When your dog listens and behaves as desired (note: this applies to previously learned behaviors), offer a reward. If not, set the reward aside and carry on with your activities. Do not nag. Do not raise your voice. Try again later, employing the same calm approach when your dog is more receptive. It takes time. You're trying to sensitize your dog that was first desensitized by you, so it takes some time. But it is worth it.
Put silent signals on learned behaviors
Embarking on the journey of teaching a new behavior? Begin by practicing the behavior itself, then introduce the corresponding cue by saying the word once, with clarity yet softly. Repeat, pause, and repeat again until the connection is firmly established. In doing so, you nurture a delightful responsiveness.
Written by: Caroline Alupo
Caroline Alupo is Petli's co-founder. She has a master's degree in ethology and is also a trained dog trainer and dog psychologist. She has 19 years of experience as a professional dog trainer. Read more about Caroline here.
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